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The Mother Wound Project
The Pain You Were Taught to Ignore Is the Wound That’s Asking to Be Healed.
Welcome to your healing. Welcome home to you.
Empower your journey from the pain of narcissistic motherhood to healing.
You’ve carried the weight of everyone else’s needs for so long…
On the outside, you’re high-functioning.
But inside? You’re exhausted, disconnected, and questioning who you even are anymor
You were taught to be the “good daughter.”
To keep the peace, ignore the pain, and pretend everything was fine—even when it wasn’t.
But you’re done surviving.
You’re ready to heal the invisible wounds.
To reclaim your voice.
To feel safe in your own skin.
And to finally live as the woman you choose to be.
That’s why I created this space.
The Mother Wound Project isn’t just support—it’s a pathway forward.
With real tools, deep healing, and soul-level transformation.
Because you don’t have to keep playing small to earn love.
You were always worthy.
Let me show you how to believe it again. You were taught to be the “good daughter.”
To keep the peace, ignore the pain, and pretend everything was fine—even when it wasn’t.
Hello there,
I’m Tandi Hartle
I’m not just a hypnotherapist & coach—I’m a daughter who had to claw her way back to herself.
I was raised by a covert narcissist mother who cared more about appearances than connection, and an emotionally immature, abusive father who left deep scars I couldn’t name for years.
I’m the daughter of a covert narcissist and an emotionally immature, abusive father.
I was raised to perform, not to feel.
Taught to smile, stay small, and never rock the boat.
That version of me? She broke.
And in her place, I rebuilt a woman who knows her worth, trusts her voice, and refuses to carry the guilt, shame, or silence passed down to her.
Now I help other women do the same.
Through The Mother Wound Project, I help you break free from the patterns that kept you stuck, people-pleasing, self-doubt, overthinking, guilt, and invisible wounds that no one ever validated.
You don’t need more surface-level support.
You need real tools to rewire the pain, rebuild your identity, and rise into the woman you were always meant to be.
And that’s exactly what we do here.
Transformative Healing
”The Mother Wound Project has been a lifeline. Their resources helped me understand my past and start my healing journey in a supportive environment.”
The Daughter’s Journey
After growing up with a narcissistic or emotionally immature mother, you might feel:
• Like you’ve spent your whole life performing for love, but never truly received it
• Overwhelmed by guilt, self-doubt, or the pressure to always be the “good daughter”
• Unsure of who you are outside of who she needed you to be
• Isolated in a world that doesn’t see the hidden wounds you carry
You’re not alone—and you don’t have to keep carrying this alone anymore.
